接纳不完美的自（3） Accept the Imperfect Self (3)
当我们能够正视自己内心的阴暗面，正视自己的所有缺点时，也就意识到了这些“缺点”的积极意义。我们只要引导自己的行为，既不刻意压抑自己，也不刻意否定自己，这样就可以化缺点为优点。承认和接纳不完美的自己，拥有完整的人生，是一件非常重要的事情。我们每个人都是矛盾的统一体，是各种积极与消极的特质彼此调和的结果，无论少了哪一方面，都称不上完整。
When we can face up to the dark side of our hearts and all our shortcomings, we will realize the positive significance of these "shortcomings". As long as we guide our own behavior, we do not deliberately suppress ourselves or deny ourselves, so that we can turn shortcomings into advantages.
It is very important to acknowledge and accept the imperfect self and have a complete life. Each of us is a unity of contradictions, the result of the reconciliation of various positive and negative characteristics. No matter what aspect is missing, it is not complete.
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